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by Tigress
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For 'dumpees' the world over, the BIG question is: How in
the heck am I supposed to fall out of love with my ex?
The biggest mistake
most people make when they breakup with their partner is to believe that
they somehow have to instantly, magically "fall out of love" with their ex.
That simply is just not so. Feel the love for your ex in your heart, allow
the memories and good feelings to flow if you want...but just remember while
allowing your heart to feel the love to also use your brain to receive feedback
that it is over and will not work out. Feel free to feel the love but accept
the fact that it is over, too. You can love him/her for the rest of eternity
if you'd like. There is NO reason to think you have to 'fall out of love'
with him/her...however you do need to go through the grief of loss, the
withdrawal from that which has become an addiction if you'd like, and acknowledge
and accept that the relationship is over. This is the key to getting past
the grief to a point where our hearts are open and love can re-enter our
lives.
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But...you can't just 'will' your
heart to not love someone anymore than you can will your heart not to beat.
It just isn't possible! What is possible, however, is to 'allow' yourself
to fall out of love. If the relationship is over then stop fighting
it, and learn to accept it - learn how to 'allow' your heart to stop loving
your ex.
To 'allow' your
heart to stop loving your ex is hard - it means admitting to ourselves that
the relationship is over, and that we will be okay - no matter what.
To allow your heart to fall out of love means to open it back up and 'allow'
others in. You can speed up this process by either getting rid of anything
that reminds you of your ex, or by packing it away - out of sight.
By clinging to the love you are not keeping the relationship alive
- like your mind has convincingly deceived you into believing - all you are
doing is keeping the grief alive.
Get new interests,
change something about yourself or your life that you were dissatisfied with,
find new hobbies, join clubs or groups and make new friends. This is a time
of rebirth for you - a second chance at life - so go for it with all the
gusto that you possibly can!
~Tigress Luv
For more information about getting over the pain of breakup, please read
How to Get Over a Breakup, by Tigress
Luv, the Breakup Guru.
Tigress Luv , the Breakup Guru, is the author
of How to Get Over a Breakup, an instantly
available online webBook and website, or ebook download, designed to help
you understand and heal from a broken heart, and How
to STOP a Breakup, also an instantly available webBook and website,
or downloadable ebook, designed to help you STOP or reverse your breakup
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